Everything can be a blessing if you can see the good about it, having uncaring parents wouldn't be that bad if you consider the lessons below that you can learn from them:
1- You learn to take full responsibility for your own life, which includes all the decisions you need to make as well as its results. You won't blame anyone anymore for the life you're living.
2- You learn to enjoy a free life where no one is interfering into your own business. You won't care about what others are thinking of you.
3- You learn to live on your expectations since no one really is expecting anything from you, and you'll live on your own rules because you have no one to impress.
4- You learn that no one owes you anything and that you have to do it by yourself and that you have to work hard for what you want.
5- You learn to take action on your future, and that means to set goals and work hard for it.
6- You learn that being a grown-up isn't a matter of age. It's rather a matter of maturity and being independent.
7- You learn to work and succeed to fill your own satisfactions. And that's what matters most.
8- You learn to be grateful for having such parents thanks to all these things you've learned.
This should show you the good side of having uncaring parents! So be grateful no matter how was your parents, some don't have any!
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