4 Important Things Your Wife Needs From You
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The primary
emotional need the wife wants from her husband is the continual love and the
continual enveloping of that attention that the husband always makes his wife
his priority. Women need to be constantly reassured that their husbands love
them. That their husbands always take them as number one.
Women do not
take their husbands’ love for granted as opposite to men who don’t need to be
constantly reassured that their wives love them. The fact that the wife is
still living with you shows you that she loves you, but it doesn’t work the
other way around. A woman is always double guessing, does he still love me,
does he still care about me, am I still his number one. This is why a woman has
to have constant reassurance.
Another issue men need to be sensitive to and understand, women are very conscious of
their looks and they’re comparing their looks with other women all the time, as
opposite to the man, who doesn’t care much about his looks or compare himself
to other guys. But women are always thinking, « Am I still beautiful enough for
him? Does he still see me attractive? Maybe I gained a few pounds… » she’s
always double guessing her looks and figure and so the husband always has to
make her feel the most beautiful, the most cherished. She always wants these
reassurances. How he does this? by using the following :
#1. Words, words, words.
Never
underestimate the power of speech. Simply saying I love you, can go a long way.
For women the word I love you never goes out of fashion, they always love to
hear this phrase. But not just « I love you », praising her and what she does.
Never take your wife's actions for granted. Even she was a stay at home and
she’s doing all the cooking and cleaning, once in a while come and compliment
her, express your appreciation for what she does for you. Such words go a long
way. This way your wife will realize that you’re not taking her for granted.
Also, don’t forget praising her looks especially when she dresses up or when
she does something extra special for you.
#2. Don’t forget anniversaries.
Why do women
want you to know their anniversaries? because it makes them feel you still love
them, makes them know that you still care about them. And what greater thing to
do than for the husband to tell his wife over and over again that « I love you
».
#3. Quality time.
There are differences in the language women and men use. When the wife says, «You never
spend time with me » immediately the man start calculating the time he spends
with her, « I sleep eight hours a day, I spend one hour preparing to work in
the morning, I come home after work, that’s more than ten hours with you ! how
can you say that I never have time for you ? ». for women, time means
attention, undivided quality attention. So suppose you’re working 5 days a
week, you have that Saturday night free and you want to go out with your
friends and watch a cricket game… that is quality time and you have just shown
your wife, that when you have quality time, you don’t want to spend it with
her. This doesn’t mean that you never go out with your friends or do any of the
activities you enjoy doing, but understand that when she’s asking for the time,
she wants quality time.
#4. Listen to her.
When she comes
to you with an issue or a problem, one of the biggest mistakes the men make is
that they think that women are coming to them to solve her problem. So
immediately, he’ll point out what she did wrong and what she should be doing
instead.and that is not what the woman wants, she wants a loving ear, a
sympathetic ear. She wants somebody to listen to her problem and be sympathetic
to her, not necessarily to solve her problem.
When you give
the woman what she wants, she’ll, in return, give you what you want. And so the
both of you will make each other feel like number one.
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