6 Relationship Principles Happy Couples Live By But Don't Talk About
"Couples who fight often
are most likely stronger than couples who do not. But it's not the fighting
makes them stronger, it's what takes place after the fighting; the making up,
it's coming to the realization that your relationship is more important than
your differences. It involves acts of forgiveness and acceptance of one's
mistakes. You fight, and you learn something new about the person, that's how
it works. Real relationships aren't perfect, and perfect relationships aren't
real."
Below are 6 principles
for a better relationship:
#1- Understand Your Partner's Needs.
We're different,
and so we have different needs, therefore, you'll have to understand your
partner better so that your needs will meet, and you can live in peace tough
your differences.
A happy
relationship depends on the expectations of both of the lovers, what they need
from each other. That's why it's really important to understand each one's
needs, the more those needs are fulfilled, the happier the relationship will
be.
#2- Care.
It's not enough
that you're together, you need to keep working on your relationship and cherish
that love constantly. Fall in love with him every day! Don't take him for
granted.
Nothing can kill
love as much as being uncaring and taking your partner for granted, you'll have
to remind yourself not to be too comfortable in your relationship because we
often forget what they mean to us, we get used to them by our side.
"Do what you did in the beginning of a relationship and there won't be an end."
#3- Trust.
Every
relationship should be based on trust, nothing can destroy a relationship like
insecurities, jealousy and worries. It's hard to be open with someone you can't
trust. When you know that he can cheat on you when temptation shows up, that
would bring too much worrying into your life, and that isn't a healthy way to
live by. But being jealous doesn't give you any right to accuse your partner,
it hurts to feel un-trusted by someone you love. Your soulmate is someone to
trust and to be open to.
#4- Communication.
“True love is born from understanding” -Buddha
You can't say
you truly love your partner until you know him very well and Vice-Versa, you
can't say that your partner loves you truly until you make sure that he knows
you very well, for that communication is needed. I've learned that it's stupid
to misunderstand your partner, and what's even worse, is to keep
misunderstanding him every single time, you'll know how this feels after
knowing the truth! always give the talk a try.
#5- Respect And Accept Your Partner's Imperfections.
No one is
flawless, the point isn't to love someone who's perfect, but to love him though
his imperfections, it's rude to ask him to compromise himself for you.
All that you can
do is accepting him the way he is, don't judge, be supportive instead and try
to understand him. A happy relationship isn't about loving your partner's
quality, but it's about accepting his imperfections.
#6- Appreciate Your Partner.
Don't ever take
him for granted make him know that he's important, and appreciate what he's
doing, forget about your expectations and start to enjoy his own way of
expressing and showing his love, it's always the intention that counts!
The happiest
couples are the ones who are positive and looking for the good in every
situation. In your bad days, don't blame your partner for not being there to
support you and keep you company or for not being what you expected him to be.
after all love shouldn't be the way we want but the way your partner wants to
show it. And you're not that perfect to be able to blame him. Know that he
isn't perfect but treat him as if he was;
know his worth and appreciate what he's doing for you.
A relationship
must be continuously moving forward to make you both better people, both people
must grow. Any relationship needs to be worked on so rather than looking for a
better partner, be that one!
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