25 Important Life Lessons To Inspire You To Change Your Life

The more you learn about life and understand it, the easier it will become. That's what struggles are for, to teach lessons so that you'll learn and grow up and then to take actions and change for the better. Struggles had never been to make a hell out of your life, nor it's to break you down and make things hard on you, it's to make you a better person and to make your life a better one.

Below is a list of some life lessons to inspire you to make the change you need:

1- Spend more time looking for a solution than dwelling on the problem. Don't say "Why is it happening to me?" rather say "How can I sort this out?". Change your question, so that the answers will change, be unconsciously your mind will give answers depending on your question. If you ask "Why is this happening to me?", your mind will give you every single negative reason why it happened like you're not good enough, you always had bad luck... But when you ask how you can sort this out, your mind will start suggesting solutions for you.

2- It’s not what you know, it’s how you apply it. What's the use of reading all those self-help books or articles without applying it? The one who knows and isn't applying it has no advantages on the one who doesn't know.

3- We create our lives with the choices we make. Stop blaming the circumstances, you chose to complain rather than changing what you can change.

4- If you want to be loved, first love yourself. Most importantly be yourself and be proud of it. Once you've accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you. If someone didn't like you, then it's his problem. You don't have to change for someone else.

5- You teach people how to treat you. Respect is earned.

6- Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. The consequences might be uncertain, but what you come out with, those precious lessons is definitely worth it. A life spent making mistakes is more honorable than a life spent doing nothing.

7- Being ordinary will get you nowhere, so you better get comfortable with taking risks. Be comfortable with discomfort. You cannot find peace by avoiding life.

8- Strength is when you have so much to cry for but you prefer to smile instead. Obstacles are placed in our way to see if what we want is really worth fighting for. No matter how tough things can get, it's only temporary, eventually, things will get better, maybe not right away, but you won't always feel this way, struggles are only a test, so hold on and watch out your response.

9- It's not the end of the world when someone walks out on you, it's the beginning of new and exciting possibilities. Most importantly, don’t take things so personally. Probably it wasn't about you.

10- By becoming the answer to someone's prayer, we often find the answers to our own. We rise by lifting others.

11- Happiness comes when we stop complaining about the troubles we have and give thanks for all the troubles we don't have. Thankfulness is the beginning of happiness. Our life isn't perfect, but it does have perfect moments.

12- Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending. Each day is precious.

13- It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change. The happiest life is that which constantly exercises and educates what is best in us.

14- Happiness cannot come from without. It must come from within. You don't need anything else to be happy, not because you have everything, but because happiness doesn't demand anything from outside at all. All you've got to do is to believe that you can be happy the way you are, where you are and be. Happiness is mostly a by-product of doing what makes us feel fulfilled.

15- Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out. Success doesn't come to you, you go to it. 

16- It is not what happens to you but how you respond to what happens to you. What defines us is how well we rise after falling.

17- Making mistakes is something everyone does. Learning from them is not. There are no mistakes in life, just lessons.

18- The quality of your thinking determines the quality of your life. A thousand disappointments in the past cannot equal the power of one positive action right now. Positivity is a choice.

19- Beauty is about living your life and being happy with yourself inside and out and not worrying about what people think of you. 

20- Character is how you treat those who can do nothing for you. Don't give and expect something in return, we don't do business when it comes to giving

21- Allow yourself to be a beginner. No one starts off being excellent. It is hard to fail, but it is worse never have tried to succeed. It's not about having the skill to do something. It's about having the will, desire & commitment to be your best.

22- Try not to take anything personally. No one thinks about you as much as you do.

23- Whenever something happens that makes you sad, ask yourself whether you’d still care about it when you’re ninety.

24- Don't compare your progress with that of others. We all need our own time to travel our own distance. No one likes to feel like he's left behind while seeing how others are doing pretty good in their lives, but at the same time you don't have to obsess about it, you're not competing with anyone, you just have to do the things you love and enjoy yourself while doing it, what matter is that you're living a life you love and that you're happy.

25- It doesn't matter if the day is good or bad, what does is if you're going to make it count or not. And I can't think of something better to make the day count than helping someone and making the world a brighter place.

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