8 Things Happy People Never Do Twice

It's true that happiness comes from within us, that circumstances can't determine our happiness or misery, still, our actions have a lot to do with us being happy or not. I'm not going to list the things we can do to be happy, there are plenty and each one of us has his own way to lift his mood and cheer up, rather I'm going to list below the things that can steal your happiness from you. In other words, these things listed below are the things that happy people never do twice:

1- Forgetting that this day counts: They value their days and their time, each moment is a good moment. Whether it was a good or a bad day, there's always something to learn, they see the good about every situation and never forget to be grateful for whatever their days bring up.

2- Beating themselves up in order to reach society standards: Feeling accepted is a great feeling everyone needs, but if you can’t accept yourselves, others’ acceptance won’t do you any good. Many people, today, go under the knife thinking that if they could look like some celebrity or if they had a certain physical trait, they will be happy and that they’ll finally be able to accept themselves. The truth is, most of them do the surgery, feel happy about it for a little while only to realize that nothing changed, they still not satisfied and they start looking for another flaw and so on. Everyone is beautiful the way he is, and in the end what matters the most isn’t how beautiful people see you but how much you love and what good you did for the people you love.

3- Letting struggles discourage them: Instead, they let it empower them to fight even harder for what they believe in. Struggles are there to make you stronger, to prepare you to face what's even harder, but never to hold you from working on your dreams.

4- Blaming others for their own circumstances: They don't waste their energy looking for someone to blame, instead, they use it to rebuild the life of their dreams. Your life is your own responsibility. No one owes you anything. Where you are and your circumstances are your choices.

5- Letting negativity in: They make sure that they're on the plus side. Our attitude is what defines our lives, and they know that their lives are too worthy to be spent being dramatic, therefore they don't settle for drama rather they choose to see the good about every situation.

6- Forgetting that happiness is not just a feeling, but also an action: happiness is not something that is passively bestowed upon you and certainly you won’t find it waiting for you in a relationship, a job, a place… Happiness comes from your actions. When you do something positive, that positivity comes back to you and makes you feel happy, when you do your job with a lot of love and dedication instead of dread, you feel a certain satisfaction. When you help someone and make them happy, that happiness comes back to you.

7- Taking relationships for granted: They know the worth of their partners, and they keep cherishing their relationships because they know that nothing can kill love as neglecting and taking their partners for granted does.

8- Neglecting spiritual or physical well-being: They value and take care of their bodies because they know that it’s got to last them a lifetime. They make sure to keep a healthy lifestyle. You can't take care of anyone when you don't know how to take care of yourself. At the same time people need a spiritual side to keep their lives balanced, so whatever you believe in, keep on believing.

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