"Love isn't perfect, it isn't a fairytale or a storybook and it doesn't always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on and never letting go. It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define and impossible to live without. Love is work, but most of all, love is realizing that every hour, every minute and every second was worth if because you did it together."
So today I'm sharing top secrets of couples that don't fight often!
1- Ain't no problem more important than their partner:
When they argue about a problem, the argument soon dies when they feel like their partner is getting hurt, because he matters much more than a problem to be solved.
2- They apologize whenever they feel like they've hurt heir partner:
They don't mind it, ego and pride never stands in their way. Not losing the person they love seems to be more important at the moment!
3- They hear the other part of the story before they judge:
They trust their partner, therefore they don't accept to get into misunderstanding and before judging anything they give their partner a chance to tell his part of the story, they eventually welcome any chance to communicate, because they know well that understanding their partner is a key.
4- They don't try to fix their relationship, they rather maintain it:
Ain't no perfect relationship, the point isn't to have a perfect one, but to love the imperfect one you have. They know that they're not perfect and so their partner.
5- They accept and respect their partner for who he is:
They don't try to change him in any kind of way, they love him just the way he is, and no matter how imperfect their partner can be, he's perfect for them just the same. Qualities are easy to love, flaws aren't!
6- They don't let others interfere into their own relationship:
They don't ask others for their opinion about anything that happens in their relationship or about their partner, because relationships is built and maintained by love, and no objectivity is possible with love.
7- They make it up:
For every fight, the make up is even sweeter, they make sure they make it up for their partner, till it lasts no grudges or hurting.