"Can you remember who you were, before the world told you who you should be!"
I used to be a good girl, just because I was locked in my comfort zone, I had no experiences, and almost no friends! but this isn't the life I wanted. I don't want to live anymore like others want, or be like others want me to be, your imperfections, that's what makes you someone of a worth, who cares about society and it's stupid standards! we meant to be unique and different.
I'm sorry society for not spending my youth cleaning and cooking and doing the things you said I should be doing, I'm sorry society for not being like you wanted me to be. I'm sorry if I have dreams. I'm sorry if I have my own vision and opinions. I'm sorry if I wanted to make the world a better place. I'm sorry for going out and exploring new places and faces. I'm sorry for disappointing you all, and I'm sorry for not being sorry at all for the life I'm living !!
So how to live more fully!
1- Live on your own purpose:
Do what you love, not what others think that it's a good idea, be great on your own way, you don't have to live the way someone else's live just because he's successful, you can have a successful life but still on your own way. Not because the people around you don't like you that you need to change, just be yourself and the right people will fall in love with you. Pleasing people is useless, no matter what you're going to do, they just won't get satisfied! And people opinion doesn't define who you are, but your own does, you're exactly who you think you are!
2- Step out of your comfort zone:
Welcome the change, don't be afraid to try new things, and to experience, even if it didn't seem comfortable, it's about being comfortable with being uncomfortable anyway, seek that discomfort, only when you feel it that you can say I lived this day!
When it comes to doing what you have to do, it has nothing to do with the fact that you're afraid to death or that you're a shy person or that you think that you can't do it, don't confuse taking your responsibilities with your insecurities.
3- Help people:
We're not here to get but to give, to leave the world a little brighter place and to leave the people we meet a little happier,we rise by lifting people! helping people, that's true happiness!!
4- Take actions on your passions:
You can be productive, but you can't be creative until you do something you love, your passions that's what makes you special from others, don't grow regretting not taking actions on your dreams! nothing can make you feel better than working on something you love, otherwise, you're wasting your time.
5- Surround yourself with people you love:
A good company, that's what gives life a meaning, you can live a luxury life, but without people around you, it would mean anything, value who you have in your life more than what you have!
6- Travel and explore the world:
This world is big and you know none of it yet! go out and explore it! traveling isn't only entertaining, but also a great way to learn and to become more open, to others and to life.
7- Express yourself not only in words, but also in deeds:
Don't be afraid to be yourself, to do things the way you do it and to say the things you like, even if others think that it's silly, as long as you won't hurt anyone, say it!
8- Boredom should be something from the past:
The solution for boredom, it to have a lot of things to do, yet you can't find time to do it, nothing is worse than feeling bored, stop it and find things to fill your empty days, so you might as well add some good habits!
If you're wondering why you don't have much to do, why you're bored, then you probably should consider that you don't have enough goals. Because goals, is what will get you busy achieving them.
9- Stop Waiting for the next moment:
If you're always racing to the next moment, what happens to the one you're in? Millions long for immortality who don't know what to do with themselves on a rainy Sunday afternoon.
No matter what happens, no matter what you're going through, don't forget to live, stop waiting for time to pass by, because after this hard time, after this problem, you won't rest. As you age, life will get tougher, even if it used to be simpler before, so you might as well live this moment up!
In this worldly life, it doesn't matter what you have, what does matter is what you do! what you add to the world. Your value is measured by how much you can make the world a better place.