Image is powerful, yet it is so superficial, beauty is fake but has a lot to do with our lives, no one can deny it, we're often judged for how we look like not for who we are.
But when you focus too much on your image and you attach it to your value, you'll be insecure because you'll keep worrying about how you look like every day! There are a lot of people who avoid some activities just because they think that they don't look good enough, they don't want to show up! this is how they think they look like, not how they really look like!
It's not about being beautiful or skinny, it's about being healthy, and being yourself without any makeup.
For people, appearance isn't the only consideration to like someone or to not, the way you look like is just a part of your identity, and there are other parts that are much important, "an ugly personality destroys a pretty face".
When the woman attaches her value to her image, she's going to obsess about beauty, and on the days when she doesn't think that she's looking good enough, she won't feel any value, and this is not a healthy way to live by, even so we always exaggerate and focus on our flaws, while others don't think about you the same way you think about yourself, you're always more beautiful than you think.
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Educate your body confidence and build self-esteem:
This needs to not only have a positive impact on you, but also a lasting one, value yourself, your individuality, your difference, don't let appearance make you afraid, don't let it hold you back from doing what you love. Looking better can't fix your bad marriage, or get your job back or even make your life better, your image has nothing to do with these.
People would think of plastic surgeries to fix their images and then their lives, but what they can't see is the soul that needs a surgery!! There's a difference between being healthy and changing your nature, why to try to look younger, enjoy your life, looking younger doesn't mean you'll look prettier, each age is special and worth enjoying we're different, special, and your imperfections that's what makes you special, so be proud!
Looking for beauty, will hold you from happiness, it feels much better, when you give up worrying about how you look like, and start to enjoy your time have fun!
It's not about being pretty, it's about being special, different and at the same time being comfortable in your own skin, beauty is full acceptance of yourself, Beauty isn't all about appearance, your inside beauty shines brighter than the one outside, being happy, confident and positive that's the true charm.
Beauty isn't from products and makeup, rather it's from within you, how you feel will glow on your outside, that's why I gave up on products. Rather than overwhelming and baking your face with makeup, try to go on a healthy life, with healthy food and healthy habits, it's much easier.
We need to start judging people by what they do, not how they look like. Your image, isn't your value. and the worst thing you can ever do to yourself is to attach your value to your image, build your value by yourself!
We get worried about being pretty. Let's be pretty kind, pretty funny, pretty smart, pretty strong. - Britt Nicole
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