I know that all what you've wanted is to have your own life, to live the way you want, and that got you to be judged by people, I know that you hate it when people underestimate you, I know that you want to be accepted the way you are without being pushed to be someone else, I know that it hurts, but you can't have everything, you need to make your choice, it's whether you want to please people or to enjoy your life on your own! and what you should know is that your worth has nothing to do with others' approval, you're good enough and you don't have to be liked by all of them! just be yourself and right people will fall in love with you, below are some important things you need to keep in your mind whenever things get tough:
1- Every day is a challenge, don't settle for less than taking the challenge, what's the point from living a life of comfort! if it's called life in the first place! So know your priorities, set down your goals and live on a purpose.
2- Be a good person, not for people, but for yourself, pleasing people shouldn't be something among your priorities! because what so ever you're going to do, people will judge you, and you should not care, because they don't know you, they don't know what's your journey is all about!
3- Live a life of non-expectations, don't ever expect anything from anyone not even from your loved ones, when you give don't expect anything in return, expectations will only give you disappointments, this world doesn't one anything, you owe it to yourself to be what you want to be and to do what you want to do, you owe it to yourself to be happy, and actually we can't control others' reaction, the only thing you can control is yourself, but when you keep thinking about something that it's out of your control, when you keep obsessing about it, it would only get worse, the more you let go of what you can't control the happier you get.
4- Give up the drama, everything is exactly as it seems in your mind, so if you want to change the situation, then change your attitude about it! see the challenges as an opportunity to grow up even stronger, and see your mistakes as lessons, to grow up even wiser!
5- The only thing that is stopping you from living your own life is your attitude, you're waiting for that perfect situation to start living the life you wanted, but actually every situation can be perfect if you did what's right for it.
Change your attitude, train your mind to see the good in every situation, because your attitude determines your direction, and whatever you believe about yourself on the inside it will manifest on the outside, your thoughts become your words and your actions, so stop negativity and practice having positive and powerful thoughts. That’s what changes the life!
6- No more excuses, no more laziness, make a decision, make a commitment and do whatever it takes to get there, no matter how hard it will be, no matter how much time it’s going to take. No matter how big your dreams are, dare to dream even bigger!
Choose greatness no matter how tired, bored you might be, you can do better, so work, work, work, it will pay, every single effort will pay, just believe.
7- Simplify, stop exaggerating and bringing drama into your life, things aren't as they seem to be like, enjoy your moment no matter how tough things get, don't loose your inner peace, go through hell, but enjoy yourself, enjoy every little thing about life, those little things can beat your big problems, the nature, the people, those little details you do daily without noticing, it has a magical power to make your day if you just looked closer.
8- Head to the bed, with a lot of hopes for a better tomorrow, not as expectation, but as a determination to make it so!
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